Stop Evaluating & Commenting on Others’ Bodies

PSA about bodies to extended families because my moms are overwhelmed with managing this already:

It’s not okay to comment on a kid’s body or eating habits. It’s not healthy to talk about being “bad” for having a cookie or fat-shame yourself in front of them. It’s intrusive and controlling to comment on other adults’ food choices or exercise habits. Yes, even if that adult is your daughter. And while we are talking about bodies and kids and holiday family struggles for appropriate care — it’s not okay to pressure kids to hug us, even if we are family. My kid will hug (and climb up and curl into a sleepy ball on) absolutely anyone, but many kids don’t feel that way and they get to decide who touches their body.

What to Do if Your Kids Are Weight-Obsessed or Being Bullied About Their Bodies

Health concerns and moral distaste - 'Concern trolling' as a moralizing rhetoric

Comments On Lizzo's Health Aren't Helpful. They're 'Concern Trolling.'

Are You Worried About This Woman's Health?

https://neworleansmom.com/ages-stages/toddlers/stop-body-shaming-in-front-of-your-children/

Your Kids Don't Have to Inherit Your Body-Image Issues (Published 2020)

Are You Teaching Your Kids To Body-shame? - BCBST News Center

Body image - tips for parents

3 Steps to Prevent Body Shaming at Your Child's Next Well-Check Visit - Crystal Karges Nutrition …

Body Shaming: What Is It & Why Do We Do It? | Walden

11 Reasons Your Phony 'Concern' for Fat People's Health Has Got to Stop - Everyday Feminism

https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/blog/raising-resilient-kids-in-fat-shaming-world

5 Ways You Might Be Unconsciously Body-Shaming Your Child

Think hard before shaming children - Harvard Health

Why You Shouldn't Comment On Your Daughter's Weight

How Grandparents Can Support Kids' Positive Body Image | Think or Blue

Teasing

My MIL Commented on My Preschooler's Weight (& I'm Furious About It)

And while we’re at it :)